How to Seduce a Girl!

Seduction comes naturally to girls; remember that Eve was the first to seduce a man, Adam. For men a little bit of training is required because seduction is fine art and needs considerable practice before you can attain a fair degree of success in your attempts at seducing pretty girls. Here are three ways you could try....

Seduction is not mere action but courtship-

Seducing a girl takes lots of time and you need to be patient. You will have to weigh the pros and cons before every move you make. Each move has to be calculated and calibrated to achieve the desired result. If you are having a dinner date, linger a little longer after the dinner is over. Talk of the fantastic time you had with her that evening, offer a few extra swigs of sparkling wine. Be truthful and sincere when you compliment her looks or her dress. Women like it when you compliment their hairstyle, clothes, eyes, perfume, sense of humor, and intelligence.

Look for tell tale signs-

If the girl is really interested in you she will laugh at your jokes whole heartedly with a naughty look in her eyes. She will touch you flirtingly and try and get a bit physical. If you see these signs respond accordingly and touch her lightly, maybe hold her hands or play with her hair.

Speak in a soft and sensual tone-

When talking to her don't be mechanical and avoid saying rehearsed lines. Try and whisper compliments in her ear and smile mischievously. This should convey the message that you are interested in taking the relationship to the next level.

Apart from all this whenever you are dating a girl, remember to put your best foot forward and dress well. A clean shave and a pleasant deodorant will make you more desirable.

Female Orgasm Secrets

ontrary to popular belief not all women are aware of orgasms and many will not be able to tell the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm. There is also a possibility that many women are not aware of the existence or the exact location of the G-spot. Isn't it shocking that in this day and age we are trying to disseminate information about female orgasm instead of celebrating it? Read further to learn a few secrets of the female orgasm....

Secret # 1

Not all women have orgasms, most women fake orgasms to get over with the act. Most women and men are unaware that women can have multiple orgasms during the course of the night. Vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm are different. In clitoral orgasm the penis need not penetrate the vagina but mere stimulation of the clitoris can bring a woman to orgasm. In the vaginal orgasm the G-spot has to be stimulated either with the finger or with the penis.

Secret # 2

Ideally it is desirable that both partners orgasm at the same time. However, more often than not this does not happen and men orgasm much before women. It takes more than 20 minutes of vaginal and clitoral stimulation for women to orgasm. Many a time's men ejaculate before women are sufficiently stimulated or aroused. Hence is it is imperative that the male partner try and prolong love making to ensure that his female partner also achieves an orgasm.

Secret # 3

Female orgasm also has an important biological function. During the course of a female orgasm the contractions help the sperm to travel into the uterus. When a female experiences an orgasm the seminal fluid that is released in the vagina dilutes the acids in the vagina making the vagina a less hostile environment for the sperm.

A female will orgasm only if the sex is consensual and enjoyable.

Orgasm With Your Fingers

When you use your fingers to stimulate a woman's vagina it can turn into pure bliss. This, of course, is given if you use the right techniques. While the below techniques are quite handy, it is up to you and your partner to find out just exactly what they like. These tips below are a great way on how to give an orgasm.

Before you try any of these, remember that she needs to be turned on and in the right mood before you start doing anything to her vagina. You can't just throw her on the bed and shove your fingers inside. You have got to get her in the mood for sex and seduce her which is a completely different topic.

So without further adieu, here are some techniques:

The fastest finger
Does your woman like to have sex really slow or does she like to be on top of you and pounce on you like a tiger? If she is into fast past sex then using middle finger to go in and out of her vagina at a very fast rate may be really helpful in terms of giving her an orgasm.

For this technique you should be on your knees and in front of her vagina. When you are in this position it helps the aid of keeping your hand straight and making sure that your fingers are going in and out all they can. Once you are in her vagina, try moving your finger as fast as possible in and out of her, but be careful to not get distracted by her screaming orgasm.

The rubber
As most of you know, the clitoris or clit as it is commonly called is the number one place to stimulate for most women. It is the head of the penis except much, much more sensitive.

For this technique you will need some type of lubrication. Weather it is her juice or some water-based lube, it doesn't matter as long as she is properly lubed up. After she is all lubed, use the tips of your fingers to carefully rub her clit in a soft, circular like motion. You will instantly be notified what she likes and what she doesn't like. If she likes it, gradually increase speed, but don't go so fast that you start to lose focus.

The helping hand
This technique is a combination of the two mentioned above. Some girls like it when you stimulate her vagina as well as her clit at the same time. While you are moving your fingers in and out of her vagina at a fast rate try using your other hand to rub her clit in a soft, circular motion like The Rubber technique. When you give her multiple stimulation, this, in return will dramatically increase her chance for reaching orgasm. Keep in mind that you should not go as fast as you can. The key is that you keep a steady rhythm. She will tell you what she likes.

I hope you all liked these three simple techniques that described how to give an orgasm with your fingers. Don't be afraid to try these next time you and your partner are feeling a little horny in the bedroom. Most of the time, sex doesn't stimulate the clit and in this case it does. This will bring a whole new experience for you and a really pleasing ending for her.